tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post7004779188628490235..comments2023-12-25T11:13:04.495+00:00Comments on Seraphic Singles: Auntie Seraphic & the Melty Smile AdmirerSeraphichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06251504033428511090noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-40117453912594368922010-02-07T22:25:10.371+00:002010-02-07T22:25:10.371+00:00Lemons, I'm going through the same thing right...Lemons, I'm going through the same thing right now. I've known the guy for over a year and all the signals were there the whole time. There is a 7 year age difference (he's older and I think it bothers him). I know I need some time away from him to get over my crush but at the same time he's a friend and there is no reason for me to avoid him. I'm having a hard time connecting with other men since I still have feelings for him. I don't know what to do.<br /><br />Silent JenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-86670886984870932742010-02-07T04:16:18.952+00:002010-02-07T04:16:18.952+00:00Good stuff, Auntie Seraphic. Too, too easy to thi...Good stuff, Auntie Seraphic. Too, too easy to think we have to do something, to move things along, when of course the man must pursue. He IS a man, right? The awful part is the worry--does he like me, why is he doing this or that, why doesn't he call when he has my number, what did it mean when he did thus and such, etc. But if you're seraphic, there's no need to worry. You're awesome and doing just fine! As I told one of my girl friends, the only thing you should worry about at the very beginning of a relationship is what you're going to wear to dinner. :)Sylviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06221464682706193091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-38256445656383817992010-02-07T02:36:37.033+00:002010-02-07T02:36:37.033+00:00Hurray for the interview!!Hurray for the interview!!Alishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08803069677860028673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-52813281093510680422010-02-06T23:10:14.766+00:002010-02-06T23:10:14.766+00:00Ugh, I know the feeling. Having all the signals th...Ugh, I know the feeling. Having all the signals that he's into you and then... then, nothing. My last crush was terrible. He had a beautiful smile, was pretty much everything I liked about men in one person and just... wow. And he seemed to like me. Then we found out that we have an age difference of ten years. He's older. Which I was ok with-- he was not. (shrug-- I guess just another case of bad timing. If only I'd been born earlier into the 80s) And yet he still seemed to show an interest, which made things messy and painful for everyone in the end. Anyway, not saying that "Melty Smile Admirer" will go through this as well since something like age or religion or any other irreconcilable difference isn't standing in the way. But crushes can really be heartbreaking. And then, despite what past experiences and common sense tell you, you wonder whether or not you'll find someone else with such a perfect smile-- such a perfect everything.Lemonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05746617462534570978noreply@blogger.com