tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post8553542862913802927..comments2023-12-25T11:13:04.495+00:00Comments on Seraphic Singles: You Can't Hurry LoveSeraphichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06251504033428511090noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-38236595518162578852011-07-17T21:48:28.867+01:002011-07-17T21:48:28.867+01:00I'm really glad you wrote this post, I'm r...I'm really glad you wrote this post, I'm really glad I emailed you about it! Great transferable advice for us blokes!Multum Incolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04817574956365161041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-73268396124396248552011-07-13T17:15:34.590+01:002011-07-13T17:15:34.590+01:00Fantastic. Love it.Fantastic. Love it.Sylviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06221464682706193091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-67118566222454187032011-07-12T15:18:02.834+01:002011-07-12T15:18:02.834+01:00This advice is so hard to follow! Wish I had live...This advice is so hard to follow! Wish I had lived it a few months ago.not a minx, a moron, or a parasitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04799393593685552159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-85323231708358998932011-07-12T00:10:54.138+01:002011-07-12T00:10:54.138+01:00You mean...you mean to say...that whether or not I...You mean...you mean to say...that whether or not I lose 10 pounds or start waking up earlier in the mornings or read this or that book or start songwriting will not make or break my future spouse finding and loving me? Egad...funny the things our heads know but our hearts don't, eh?Eowynnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-11363978257775271422011-07-11T23:01:45.926+01:002011-07-11T23:01:45.926+01:00I don't really have anything to add to your th...I don't really have anything to add to your thoughts, only wanted to pipe up and chime in with the others that I always like reading your writing. It must be a labour of love. (That always sounds like it's horrible work with no rewards - I just mean you must love doing it to do it so steadfastly.) Thanks!<br /><br />Susanna.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-60522949268303534462011-07-11T22:21:39.467+01:002011-07-11T22:21:39.467+01:00What a great post! As another sciency girl, worri...What a great post! As another sciency girl, worried about what I can *do* to make myself more attractive/funny/kind etc, in hopes that it will attract the right person, it is so good to be reminded again and again to wait and be happy because there really isn't anything we can do. Off to reread your book!Clarenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-22387890003652222752011-07-11T20:52:02.855+01:002011-07-11T20:52:02.855+01:00Oh I need all the wisdom I can get! I discovered y...Oh I need all the wisdom I can get! I discovered your blog about a month ago, and it has provided so much reassurance and guidance, and I really am grateful for that. As you said, it's a tough old world, and reading your insights has been most enlightening, especially your suggestions about relating to men and dating, handling the situation of waiting, and enjoying single life. Thank you for the work you do!marynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-60434520875305631832011-07-11T20:39:57.657+01:002011-07-11T20:39:57.657+01:00There are no rules. There is only the wisdom of th...There are no rules. There is only the wisdom of the elders, for you to accept or reject. I recommend going with the wisdom of the elders who were born before 1930 or the wisdom of the elders at the forefront of the Benedict XVI generation, e.g. me.Seraphichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06251504033428511090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6905236167079601771.post-4649950521658742952011-07-11T20:16:36.979+01:002011-07-11T20:16:36.979+01:00I have heard advice to men saying that they should...I have heard advice to men saying that they shouldn't profess their ardor until the woman has said something first. With all these rules, I get frustrated because I like the idea of being honest about how I feel. If you like someone and want to tell them, why not tell them? It feels like game-playing to hold it in. <br />Nevertheless, please feel free to obliterate these ideas, as the last time I told a guy I liked him, it went nowhere fast, so clearly I don't have a proven track record here. I'm open to new ways of doing things. His not saying it first should have been a tipoff that he wasn't that into me. Que sera sera.marynoreply@blogger.com